Our next chance for skiing actually never happened. We went to an antique shop, sat in the hot tub, took a nap….and both Chris and I decided we were entirely too sore and tired to attempt the slopes. I will admit that I was more than relieved to realize that Chris felt the same way I did.
So we got an extra needed break before the final night skiing session before we headed home. It was New Years Eve and the slopes were basically empty. The sky was clear and the evening crisp. It was beautiful. The weather had been in the 50s all day, so when we arrived, they were still making snow.
And strangely, skiing just seemed to make sense.
Unfortunately, the first time we were on the ski lift, we approached that terrible ramp and realized the snow hadn’t been pushed to the sides yet. I panicked – slid too far to the right, crashed and tweeked my shoulder. I haven’t felt pain like that and not had to go to the hospital. It didn’t matter. The hospital could wait.
The rest of the evening was wonderful. Skiing started to make sense. The freshly-created powder made learning the sport much easier. Chris and I laughed and smiled and just enjoyed each other’s company. At one point, I slid over Chris’ skis, my skis slid in opposite directions and I proceeded to be stuck in the splits. As if that wasn’t enough, I was laughing too hard to move. I think this is how skiing is supposed to be.
I was sad when the evening was over, and even began to talk about our next ski trip.
I have a few take-aways on this challenge.
First – I have to question just how much of life I have missed out on because I didn’t face my fears. Yes, the first sessions of skiing were incredibly frustrating, but without going through the first day, I wouldn’t have gotten to spend a lovely, romantic New Years Eve with my fiancé, enjoying the snow.
Second – I have to show up. Mentally and physically. I have to believe that I can achieve something, and be willing to show up, and put in the work to do it. But I have to show up mentally as well.
Third – I have met the most incredible, amazing man. Chris, with his gentle words and solid encouragement, was such a testimony of love and care. It’s amazing just how much one can achieve when someone else believes in them.
It’s now 3 weeks since this trip, and, now that my shoulder feels better, I’m dreaming of my next trip to the slopes.